Genuine Love

Monday, May 08, 2023

Let us have no imitation Christian love. Let us have a genuine break with evil and a real devotion to good. 10 Let us have real warm affection for one another as between brothers, and a willingness to let the other man have the credit. 11 Let us not allow slackness to spoil our work and let us keep the fires of the spirit burning, as we do our work for God. 12 Base your happiness on your hope in Christ. When trials come endure them patiently, steadfastly maintain the habit of prayer. 13 Give freely to fellow-Christians in want, never grudging a meal or a bed to those who need them. 14 And as for those who try to make your life a misery, bless them. Don’t curse, bless. 15 Share the happiness of those who are happy, the sorrow of those who are sad. 16 Live in harmony with each other. Don’t become snobbish but take a real interest in ordinary people. Don’t become set in your own opinions. 17 Don’t pay back a bad turn by a bad turn, to anyone. Don’t say “it doesn’t matter what people think,” but see that your public behavior is above criticism. 18 As far as your responsibility goes, live at peace with everyone. 19 Never take vengeance into your own hands, my dear friends: stand back and let God punish if he will. For it is written: ‘Vengeance is mine. I will repay’. 20-21 … these are God’s words: ‘Therefore if your enemy hungers, feed him; if he thirsts, give him a drink; for in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head’. Don’t allow yourself to be overpowered with evil. Take the offensive—overpower evil by good!                                                                                                             Rom 12:9 – 21

My love must be genuine.  It can’t be show; it can’t be anything less than real and tangible.  One of the things Paul says here strikes me hard; he writes: “Don’t become snobbish but take a real interest in ordinary people.”  This is truly how love is expressed to those outside of the family of God.  I must take time for “ordinary people,” not caring who they are, what they have, or what they can do for me in return.  I must listen intently; I must speak gently; I must touch their lives with love, the love that is in me because of Christ Jesus.  I must leave the door open; I must leave my arms extended in welcome; and I must give … give all that I am just as Jesus did.  Oh God, your love is within me; give me grace that it may flow out of me and touch others.

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